I've had guys try to do that 'whoops, sorry wrong hole' thing in the past, so I just appreciated that he wasn't a total dick about it. When a woman comments and Submitted by Anonymous on November 5, - 1: Typically it starts with a clueless partner trying to shove it in, hoping that they'll enjoy the experience — only to have the event end in trauma and pain. You will stop anytime she wants to. If you want to make sure that the anal sex you engage in with your girl is truly pleasurable for her, it is essential that you use plenty of lube. Powered by Solo Build It! It also didn't hurt that he promised to give me an intense back rub afterward.
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After a shower or hot tub, and if the person being pleasured is OK with it. If you can't achieve oral or anal sex with a partner, it's your own lack of experience and adventure talking. The first time, it didn't hurt, but yeah While the risk is less for the 'top' or insertive partner , HIV can still enter through the opening at the top of the penis urethra , or through cuts, scratches and sores on the penis. As tempted as you may be to shove your cock in and start pounding her ass, you have to control yourself as much as possible.
Would it make a difference if we used a lot of lube? Start the movement slowly, and increase a little bit of the pressure to give your woman her first anal orgasm. If you're shy or scared, use dark sheets to keep things from getting too weird looking later. Water-based lubricants work great. John It's not bad at all. In fact, other than the initial discomfort, if it hurts
Water-based lubricants work great. It got to be where he started doing this on a regular basis. Is she afraid of pain? If at any time you are feeling strong pain then you should stop immediately. Fisher , and Bridget Rogala.